My name is Roxie, and I am a fairly conventionally attractive cis-female of colour and I identify as queerly straight. I am also in a heterosexual relationship that is read as heterosexual. In short, I command a lot of privilege.
I have been in a healthy, loving, sweet, caring, supportive romantic and sexual relationship for almost a year now – with a sexy, funny, sweet, intelligent, well-dressed, eloquent, amazing man who happens to be transsexual.
This is purely my experience within one relationship within the queer community; your experience(s) may be very different from my own. I don’t know pretend to know everything, and if you think I have missed something vital or would like to discuss something you think I missed the mark on entirely, please let me know.





